Falling in love is normal and ok when it happens. What matters is how you handle your feelings. Do not be coerced into sex when you are not ready. Do not go into sex simply because your friend sks you for sex. Look at the consequences of early sex and what effect it will have on your studies and make an informed decision. Love does not equal to sex. A true lover will always wait. Abstain and carry out safe sex practices and you will enjoy your relationship.
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- Dear Counselor, I am a girl of 15 but with small hips and a flat chest. My friends all have big hips and breasts and tell me that I must have sex in order to get “Vitamin S” which will help me grow hips and breasts. I am normal? What can I do to be like them?
- Dear Counselor, if I get pregnant and I don’t want my parents to know. Should I remove it or ran away from home
- Dear counselor, my parents are forcing me to get married and I have refused. They say I should leave our home and go away. What should I do?
- Dear Counselor, I am a girl of 14 years. A boy told me that if I don’t have sex, I will not grow and my breasts will remain small. Is it true?
- Dear Counselor, how can I refuse negative peer pressure from my friends?
- Dear Counselor, is it possible for an HIV positive person to give birth to an HIV negative child?
- Dear Counselor, I am a girl of 14. Why is it that sometimes I feel so happy and soon I feel like crying? I am normal?
- Dear Counselor, what is vaginal fistula and what causes it? Is it true that it can be treated?
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- Dear Counselor, if I play sex while using a condom, can I get HIV/AIDS?
You should appreciate that love and sex are normal feelings. Take off time with your friend to discuss the effects of sex, reflect on the negative consequences of early sex and allow yourselves time to concentrate on your career goals and ambitions. Make it clear to your friend that at a latter time, when the two of you are more empowered to handle sex responsibly you will be able to enjoy it. If he truely loves you, he will wait or else if you give in early he may missuse you and later damp you so you will leave to regret.