Dear Counselor, how can one get rid of a crash? There is this boy I love very much and I feel I want to get rid. What can I do?
Submitted by Counselor at SchoolNet on 2nd May, 2010
Love is hard to define and more so measure. If you truly loved this boy, then it would be hard to let go. But you have your reasons for thinking about quitting. Sitting with this boy for a talk would be an appropriate way to start. Give him your reasons and ask him to understand. Listen to his side and eventually come out with your position stressed. It won’t be easy but if it’s the best for you, then stick to your wish. Expect some tears in this but they are good for healing!!!! Communication skills and assertiveness are your best weapons.