Dear Counselor, there is this boy I really love and he doesn’t care about me because he doesn’t want to respect my body yet there is another one who loves me and cares and even he accepted to abstain yet I have no feelings for him. What should I do?
Submitted by Counselor at SchoolNet on 30th April, 2010
What you should do is your choice! May be the following can be your thinking points; what is love? What if he pretends and just wants to see my body? Do I need a relationship? Am I ready for a relationship? Can a good relationship thrive for long without sex? What am I expected to do as a girl in a relationship? Any risks associated with that? Anything at stake? What is the right time? With all the above, huddles are still so many to ascertain that any of the two boys will marry you. Your future and safety is more important than any boy! Most successful relationships are those after school.